# Always share positive feelings. One can never hear enough of them;
# Never share negative feelings unless there is a specific constructive purpose to it (resolving an issue before it gets out of hand, expressing concern over a fixable issue, etc. etc.). Negative feelings expressed just to get something off the chest, to make a minor point, to lash out, to put down, to get your way, or to make an issue of something which cannot be changed, can only have a negative effect on the relationship. Nothing positive will ever come out of any of it, save a fleeting feeling of satisfaction from spitting it all out;
# Make each other feel like a priority, especially when you are unable to treat your partner as such. In other words, at times when it isn't possible to treat your lover as a priority due to extenuating circumstances, at least take a few moments (doesn't take a lot) to share the situation with them, and reaffirm your feelings;
# Never let the sun go down without resolving anger or doing a daily mental check-up. Put yourself in your lover's shoes and see how you would feel receiving what you gave to them (good or bad) each day;
# Once is an error, twice carelessness, more than that a habit. If you're doing something which your lover has serious, justifiable objections to, nip it before it is perceived as a habit. Some behaviours are very hard to change, undoing the hurt to a cherished lover harder still. I'm not suggesting you modify your personality to accommodate your partner, just behaviours which are justifiably intolerable;
# If a situation calls for a compromise and you're willing to make it, do it sooner than later. Treat it like a job interview where you're willing to meet your future boss half-way or agree to productive changes in your modus operandi. Don't let your relationship reach that hopeless stage where you feel there are no solutions. If you're going to do it, do it early on to show your commitment, versus waiting until the last minute when feelings have died and motivation and longevity have come under question. There truly is a critical period for everything. Wait too long and you risk your lover hitting the ‘too little too late' stage;
# Always keep the passion alive. Remember it was the two of you who made it happen in the first place, without outside help, therefore the two of you can keep it going forever. That special magic is one of the few things which is completely under your control – a level playing field which cannot be taken away unless you decide to willingly let go of it. Don't ever fall into the dull, blasé, can't-be-bothered-to-try approach once you know you've won your lover's heart. If anything, the two of you falling in love should merely mark a beginning – a beginning which paves the way to beautiful things, since you will no longer have to waste your energy over draining insecurities or worries around whether or not you'll be loved back;
# When you talk to your partner, really listen. They need to know that of all the billions of people out there you are the one who is most interested in what they have to say. I'm not talking faking here. I'd sooner you fake an orgasm than your interest in the love of your life. Genuine is the key here;
# Make sure your checks and balances are squared away as far as giving and expectations are concerned. If not, sooner or later the overdrafts will ruin your credibility rating. A partner who repeatedly gives, receives little in return, even in the form of appreciation, will end up saying "the heck with it" or pulling away from the whole thing, feeling that they'll never be good enough and that their partner is best off without them;
# Nurture each other and the relationship regularly. Meals, jobs, great backyards, good kids, hygiene, grooming don't just happen by themselves. Why should relationships? Ditch the misconception that beautiful relationships just happen and last forever effortlessly. Sound like a chore? Don't let it. Change your perspective and make it your hobby. Nothing will be quite as enjoyable. A garden tended to as a hobby is always more delightful than one created out of tough chores and obligations.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
20 Tips to Keep Love Alive
Have you ever been at a loss to think of something special that you can do for that special someone in your life? Maybe you want to do a little extra for an important event, like his or her birthday, Valentine's Day, Christmas, or anniversary.
Here are some excellent tips and ideas of some special actions that you can take to help keep love alive in your life.
1. Give your loved one a top ten list: Top Ten Reasons Why I Love You. (It’s okay to include bonus reasons.)
2. Change the screen saver on the computer to something like “You Are the Light of My Life” in fancy or bold letters.
3. Stick an “I Love You” note on his or her steering wheel while they are at work.
4. Give her the top half of a pair of your pajamas on a cold night.
5. Write a poem for her, even if it is short, and even if you can’t write poems.
6. Bake fortune cookies that contain special “I Love You” messages.
7. Give her a rose for every year you’ve known her.
8. Give him a golf ball for every year you’ve known him.
9. Learn how to say “I Love You” is as many different languages as possible.
10. Reenact the best date the two of you ever had.
11. Put your favorite love note in a frame.
12. Take walks together after midnight.
13. Memorize your favorite love poem.
14. Read the story of Romeo and Juliet to each other.
15. Rent a bicycle built for two and ride in the park.
16. Serenade her with a song, preferably beneath a window.
17. Buy him or her a copy of their favorite magazine.
18. Give her one of her favorite flowers for each year you’ve known her.
19. Write a love letter in a code.
20. Give him or her a t-shirt with their pet name on it.
Here are some excellent tips and ideas of some special actions that you can take to help keep love alive in your life.
1. Give your loved one a top ten list: Top Ten Reasons Why I Love You. (It’s okay to include bonus reasons.)
2. Change the screen saver on the computer to something like “You Are the Light of My Life” in fancy or bold letters.
3. Stick an “I Love You” note on his or her steering wheel while they are at work.
4. Give her the top half of a pair of your pajamas on a cold night.
5. Write a poem for her, even if it is short, and even if you can’t write poems.
6. Bake fortune cookies that contain special “I Love You” messages.
7. Give her a rose for every year you’ve known her.
8. Give him a golf ball for every year you’ve known him.
9. Learn how to say “I Love You” is as many different languages as possible.
10. Reenact the best date the two of you ever had.
11. Put your favorite love note in a frame.
12. Take walks together after midnight.
13. Memorize your favorite love poem.
14. Read the story of Romeo and Juliet to each other.
15. Rent a bicycle built for two and ride in the park.
16. Serenade her with a song, preferably beneath a window.
17. Buy him or her a copy of their favorite magazine.
18. Give her one of her favorite flowers for each year you’ve known her.
19. Write a love letter in a code.
20. Give him or her a t-shirt with their pet name on it.
Long Term Relationship Advice - 5 Tips To Keep You Both Happy
If you are having problems with your long term relationship, advice can really help. Being in a relationship sometimes means you can't see the woods for the trees, so some outside input can really help you see things in a new perspective. Check out this article for 5 golden pieces of advice.
Long Term Relationship Advice 1
Have fun together. As John Lennon said, sometimes life gets in the way, and it really does. It's all to easy to find yourselves grinding away in a boring rut of a life these days, and when you think about it, it's pretty easy for relationships to turn sour in those circumstances. Instead of concentrating on the everyday routines, try and concentrate on making the routines fun. You had fun together when you first met, and you can do it again!
Long Term Relationship Advice 2
Fix Things Fast - Adopt this as your mantra to keep a troublesome relationship on its feet. When you argue or fight about something, every second that goes by makes it more likely that the conflict will result in some kind of resentment or long term issue. It's quite healthy to disagree about things, but it's also healthy to accept someone else's opinion, or even agree to disagree. That's not to say you should just pander to your partner's wishes in case a disagreement causes problems, but just keep in mind that if you do argue the consequences can be far reaching.
Long Term Relationship Advice 3
Be romantic. What woman doesn't want a surprise bunch of flowers or box of chocolates? What man doesn't like a spur of the moment gift or his wife in some naughty underwear? These may seem like cliches, but cliches become cliches because they contain a grain of truth. The secret is not in the items themselves, the romance is in the action. By surprising them in whatever way, you are showing them that you care for and think about them even when they aren't around, and who doesn't want to hear that?
Long Term Relationship Advice 4
Date night! Why not have a night or two each week just for the both of you? It's recommended that you make it as much like a regular date as possible, and go out and even meet each other beforehand etc, but as time goes on you'll find you want to stay at home. And that's okay. The important thing is to keep the commitment to each other, and also to demonstrate it to others so that there can be no interruptions from children, friends, relatives etc. If you both have a pre-agreed night to be with each other, it can be surprising how soon that becomes the highlight of your week.
Long Term Relationship Advice 5
If things are in trouble, make some promises to each other. For the more romantically inclined, this could almost be like renewing marriage vows, if you are married, or it could be as simple as saying "I know that drives you crazy, so I'm going to try my best not to do it again". Sometimes some simple care and consideration are all that's required to turn your relationship around. If you can both take the time to talk things over and make some promises about certain changes, you are demonstrating how much you love each other and the lengths you will go to. This is rarely a bad thing!
Long term relationship advice really can fix most problems before they get to be a big deal. Check out the links below to get some of the best advice around.
Long Term Relationship Advice 1
Have fun together. As John Lennon said, sometimes life gets in the way, and it really does. It's all to easy to find yourselves grinding away in a boring rut of a life these days, and when you think about it, it's pretty easy for relationships to turn sour in those circumstances. Instead of concentrating on the everyday routines, try and concentrate on making the routines fun. You had fun together when you first met, and you can do it again!
Long Term Relationship Advice 2
Fix Things Fast - Adopt this as your mantra to keep a troublesome relationship on its feet. When you argue or fight about something, every second that goes by makes it more likely that the conflict will result in some kind of resentment or long term issue. It's quite healthy to disagree about things, but it's also healthy to accept someone else's opinion, or even agree to disagree. That's not to say you should just pander to your partner's wishes in case a disagreement causes problems, but just keep in mind that if you do argue the consequences can be far reaching.
Long Term Relationship Advice 3
Be romantic. What woman doesn't want a surprise bunch of flowers or box of chocolates? What man doesn't like a spur of the moment gift or his wife in some naughty underwear? These may seem like cliches, but cliches become cliches because they contain a grain of truth. The secret is not in the items themselves, the romance is in the action. By surprising them in whatever way, you are showing them that you care for and think about them even when they aren't around, and who doesn't want to hear that?
Long Term Relationship Advice 4
Date night! Why not have a night or two each week just for the both of you? It's recommended that you make it as much like a regular date as possible, and go out and even meet each other beforehand etc, but as time goes on you'll find you want to stay at home. And that's okay. The important thing is to keep the commitment to each other, and also to demonstrate it to others so that there can be no interruptions from children, friends, relatives etc. If you both have a pre-agreed night to be with each other, it can be surprising how soon that becomes the highlight of your week.
Long Term Relationship Advice 5
If things are in trouble, make some promises to each other. For the more romantically inclined, this could almost be like renewing marriage vows, if you are married, or it could be as simple as saying "I know that drives you crazy, so I'm going to try my best not to do it again". Sometimes some simple care and consideration are all that's required to turn your relationship around. If you can both take the time to talk things over and make some promises about certain changes, you are demonstrating how much you love each other and the lengths you will go to. This is rarely a bad thing!
Long term relationship advice really can fix most problems before they get to be a big deal. Check out the links below to get some of the best advice around.
Friday, August 14, 2009
How to Make Friends at College
College is a time when people actively seek out new relationships. Unless you live in a box, making friends should not be a problem. Still, it requires effort and a willingness to extend yourself at times. Follow these few steps to help youbecome more social.
Instructions
Things You'll Need:
* Address Books
* Invitations
* Student Activities Catalogs
* Telephones
* Snack Foods
* Personal Organizers
* Frisbees
* Frisbees
1.
Step 1
Be loquacious, gregarious, chatty, talkative, friendly, outgoing, amiable, congenial, neighborly, sociable, approachable, easygoing and otherwise chummy.
2.
Step 2
Introduce yourself to those in your dorm and class.
3.
Step 3
Show up early for orientation.
4.
Step 4
Attend parties, sports events and special gatherings where people socialize.
5.
Step 5
Remain open to new cultures, ideas and values.
6.
Step 6
Invite people to join you for a bite to eat and a drink.
7.
Step 7
Offer to give people a ride somewhere.
8.
Step 8
Study in groups.
9.
Step 9
Reach out to others when they need help.
10.
Step 10
Join a student group or sports team.
11.
Step 11
Explore the Greek system.
12.
Step 12
Throw a party.
Tips & Warnings
*
Give people a second chance if they make a bad first impression.
*
Let people open up to you slowly. Make sure you are not forcing yourself upon someone.
Instructions
Things You'll Need:
* Address Books
* Invitations
* Student Activities Catalogs
* Telephones
* Snack Foods
* Personal Organizers
* Frisbees
* Frisbees
1.
Step 1
Be loquacious, gregarious, chatty, talkative, friendly, outgoing, amiable, congenial, neighborly, sociable, approachable, easygoing and otherwise chummy.
2.
Step 2
Introduce yourself to those in your dorm and class.
3.
Step 3
Show up early for orientation.
4.
Step 4
Attend parties, sports events and special gatherings where people socialize.
5.
Step 5
Remain open to new cultures, ideas and values.
6.
Step 6
Invite people to join you for a bite to eat and a drink.
7.
Step 7
Offer to give people a ride somewhere.
8.
Step 8
Study in groups.
9.
Step 9
Reach out to others when they need help.
10.
Step 10
Join a student group or sports team.
11.
Step 11
Explore the Greek system.
12.
Step 12
Throw a party.
Tips & Warnings
*
Give people a second chance if they make a bad first impression.
*
Let people open up to you slowly. Make sure you are not forcing yourself upon someone.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy
Steps
1. Always be a gentleman. Hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful.
2. Know her favorite song and listen to her type of music, then share what you think about it.
3. Learn to love what she does.
4. Tell her that she's on your mind from the time you awaken until bedtime.
5. Tell her you love her, but not too often. It loses its luster if you overuse it.
6. Make sure you mean it whenever you tell her that you love her.
7. Make her happy by buying her gifts, but know what she likes beforehand. Jewelery is a great choice but don't be offended if she doesn't wear it all the time.
8. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out. Have a jacket or a coat handy so you can give it to her.
9. Go out somewhere and have some fun. Some good places to go are movies, restaurants, and other relaxing locations.
10. Never ignore her and just walk off with your friends. It's rude to do that. If she does it to you, wait a minute for her to return to you, and if she doesn't, go talk to your friends.
11. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Girls love that.
12. Before you kiss her, take a breath mint.
13. Move the relationship at a pace you're both comfortable with. If you don't match up, try to compromise. If that doesn't work out, politely find someone else.
14. Make a good impression on her parents. Even if she doesn't like them, they can be your greatest allies in the long run.
15. Become friends with her friends. It gives you more things in common with your girl. Eventually, her friends will love you, and that's a definite turn-on for your girlfriend.
16. Walk her to classes if you go to the same school. When you walk her, carry her books, even if she isn't struggling. Some girls won't let you, though. If she denies a few times, let it go and don't push.
17. When you listen to your iPod around her, share an ear with her. This way, you'll be closer because the cord is short and you'll have an excuse to hold her hand or put your arm around her.
18. Don't be too shy. There are times and places that are appropriate to be shy, like kissing in public. Don't be too shy to put your arm around her or hold her hand, because you shouldn't be ashamed to have some public displays of affection.
19. Kiss something other than her lips, like her hand, her forehead or her cheek. Anything like that will definitely put a smile on her face.
20. If you know she has a good sense of humour, learn a new joke every day and tell it to her. If she appreciates a good-sensed joke, don't be afraid to share. Just make sure it doesn't offend her.
21. Be confident. Be proud of who you are, and being her boyfriend. Giving nice comments always makes a girls day, just not too many.
22. Make her a mixed CD of her favorite songs. It shows that you pay attention to the things she likes and you appreciate her style of music. If you don't know her favorite songs, buddy up with her best friend and ask for some help.
23. Get her something just because you care for her.
24. Always respect her and always be willing to help her.
25. Don't go too fast into the relationship. Take it nice and slow, but not too slow.
26. Ask her what she would like to do sometimes.
27. Make sure to actually do things for her. Everyone knows to open doors for her, but nobody seems to help her clean, make food for her, and other things like that. She does it for you, why not do it for her too?
28. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything! Be there for her through thick and thin. She will feel comfortable with you and trust you.
29. Write her love notes. When writing notes, try to make them cute and show her that you care. Writing notes is a great way to show her that you are spontaneous and romantic.
30. Tell her that your lucky that you found her. She loves it when you say it.
31. Never tell her that you hate her beloved friends.
32. Never tell her that you don't like the things she does.
33. Always give her a smile, that will cheer her up.
34. Never EVER give her things that are malicious, that will make her think that your a maniac.
35. If you want her to be yours forever, always help her out, never leave her side, and most likely never ever turn your back on her.
36. If budget permits, book the occassional weekend away. Every woman loves a bit of alone time with her partner.
1. Always be a gentleman. Hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful.
2. Know her favorite song and listen to her type of music, then share what you think about it.
3. Learn to love what she does.
4. Tell her that she's on your mind from the time you awaken until bedtime.
5. Tell her you love her, but not too often. It loses its luster if you overuse it.
6. Make sure you mean it whenever you tell her that you love her.
7. Make her happy by buying her gifts, but know what she likes beforehand. Jewelery is a great choice but don't be offended if she doesn't wear it all the time.
8. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out. Have a jacket or a coat handy so you can give it to her.
9. Go out somewhere and have some fun. Some good places to go are movies, restaurants, and other relaxing locations.
10. Never ignore her and just walk off with your friends. It's rude to do that. If she does it to you, wait a minute for her to return to you, and if she doesn't, go talk to your friends.
11. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Girls love that.
12. Before you kiss her, take a breath mint.
13. Move the relationship at a pace you're both comfortable with. If you don't match up, try to compromise. If that doesn't work out, politely find someone else.
14. Make a good impression on her parents. Even if she doesn't like them, they can be your greatest allies in the long run.
15. Become friends with her friends. It gives you more things in common with your girl. Eventually, her friends will love you, and that's a definite turn-on for your girlfriend.
16. Walk her to classes if you go to the same school. When you walk her, carry her books, even if she isn't struggling. Some girls won't let you, though. If she denies a few times, let it go and don't push.
17. When you listen to your iPod around her, share an ear with her. This way, you'll be closer because the cord is short and you'll have an excuse to hold her hand or put your arm around her.
18. Don't be too shy. There are times and places that are appropriate to be shy, like kissing in public. Don't be too shy to put your arm around her or hold her hand, because you shouldn't be ashamed to have some public displays of affection.
19. Kiss something other than her lips, like her hand, her forehead or her cheek. Anything like that will definitely put a smile on her face.
20. If you know she has a good sense of humour, learn a new joke every day and tell it to her. If she appreciates a good-sensed joke, don't be afraid to share. Just make sure it doesn't offend her.
21. Be confident. Be proud of who you are, and being her boyfriend. Giving nice comments always makes a girls day, just not too many.
22. Make her a mixed CD of her favorite songs. It shows that you pay attention to the things she likes and you appreciate her style of music. If you don't know her favorite songs, buddy up with her best friend and ask for some help.
23. Get her something just because you care for her.
24. Always respect her and always be willing to help her.
25. Don't go too fast into the relationship. Take it nice and slow, but not too slow.
26. Ask her what she would like to do sometimes.
27. Make sure to actually do things for her. Everyone knows to open doors for her, but nobody seems to help her clean, make food for her, and other things like that. She does it for you, why not do it for her too?
28. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything! Be there for her through thick and thin. She will feel comfortable with you and trust you.
29. Write her love notes. When writing notes, try to make them cute and show her that you care. Writing notes is a great way to show her that you are spontaneous and romantic.
30. Tell her that your lucky that you found her. She loves it when you say it.
31. Never tell her that you hate her beloved friends.
32. Never tell her that you don't like the things she does.
33. Always give her a smile, that will cheer her up.
34. Never EVER give her things that are malicious, that will make her think that your a maniac.
35. If you want her to be yours forever, always help her out, never leave her side, and most likely never ever turn your back on her.
36. If budget permits, book the occassional weekend away. Every woman loves a bit of alone time with her partner.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
How to Tell if a Girl Likes You?
Knowing whether a woman is attracted to you BEFORE you make your big move on her can be helpful.
The problem is that it can be pretty close to impossible to sense whether a girl likes you. To make matters worse there is a TON of bad advice out there on the subject.
How to know if a girl likes you?
Some "experts" say that if a woman likes you her pupils will dilate when she looks at you. Others suggest that she will twirl her hair and bite her lip... or she might playfully remove her shoes. Oh, and if she's REALLY interested she will blush and her heart rate will speed up.
What the...? Dilating pupils? Heart rates?
COME ON !!! You shouldn't have to take a woman's pulse to figure out if she's attracted to you. Those types of signals are so vague and ambiguous... they could be occurring for any number of totally unrelated reasons.
What you need is something that will give you a concrete answer and something that you can use in ANY situation with ANY girl.
How to know when girl likes you? The term "Proxemics" was coined by researcher E.T. Hall when he investigated man's use of personal space. Basically, it's studying how people interact with other people in close proximity to each other (such as on an elevator).
What on earth does this have to do with detecting interest?
Well, what E.T. found was that individuals subconsciously perceive a distance that is appropriate for different relationships; they also establish a comfortable distance for personal interaction and nonverbally define this as their personal space.
This is where it gets interesting-- if a woman likes you she will let you into her more intimate personal space. But, if she doesn't like you she won't... she will make an effort to keep you further away-- OUT of her close personal space reserved for people whom she respects, trusts, and/or admires.
This is how it happens-- it is PROVEN.
It makes sense... if a woman likes you then she will want you to be closer whereas the opposite is, of course, also true. The more she likes you the less of a boundary she will place on you.
When you are talking to a woman the space between both of you is where the two of you are comfortable. If you move in a little closer to her she will either be fine with it and allow it or she will get uncomfortable and move back to reestablish a more comfortable distance.
I'll make it simple for you... if she stays she's interested. If she moves back... you still have some work to do because she's NOT interested yet.Now, when you do this, only move in an inch or two. I'm not talking about a huge step closer to her. ANY woman, no matter how interested she is, would move back if you suddenly move much closer to her.
Just take a small, smooth step closer to her and watch for her reaction.
Test it out... this WORKS.
Brian brian at SeductionProgram.com
The problem is that it can be pretty close to impossible to sense whether a girl likes you. To make matters worse there is a TON of bad advice out there on the subject.
How to know if a girl likes you?
Some "experts" say that if a woman likes you her pupils will dilate when she looks at you. Others suggest that she will twirl her hair and bite her lip... or she might playfully remove her shoes. Oh, and if she's REALLY interested she will blush and her heart rate will speed up.
What the...? Dilating pupils? Heart rates?
COME ON !!! You shouldn't have to take a woman's pulse to figure out if she's attracted to you. Those types of signals are so vague and ambiguous... they could be occurring for any number of totally unrelated reasons.
What you need is something that will give you a concrete answer and something that you can use in ANY situation with ANY girl.
How to know when girl likes you? The term "Proxemics" was coined by researcher E.T. Hall when he investigated man's use of personal space. Basically, it's studying how people interact with other people in close proximity to each other (such as on an elevator).
What on earth does this have to do with detecting interest?
Well, what E.T. found was that individuals subconsciously perceive a distance that is appropriate for different relationships; they also establish a comfortable distance for personal interaction and nonverbally define this as their personal space.
This is where it gets interesting-- if a woman likes you she will let you into her more intimate personal space. But, if she doesn't like you she won't... she will make an effort to keep you further away-- OUT of her close personal space reserved for people whom she respects, trusts, and/or admires.
This is how it happens-- it is PROVEN.
It makes sense... if a woman likes you then she will want you to be closer whereas the opposite is, of course, also true. The more she likes you the less of a boundary she will place on you.
When you are talking to a woman the space between both of you is where the two of you are comfortable. If you move in a little closer to her she will either be fine with it and allow it or she will get uncomfortable and move back to reestablish a more comfortable distance.
I'll make it simple for you... if she stays she's interested. If she moves back... you still have some work to do because she's NOT interested yet.Now, when you do this, only move in an inch or two. I'm not talking about a huge step closer to her. ANY woman, no matter how interested she is, would move back if you suddenly move much closer to her.
Just take a small, smooth step closer to her and watch for her reaction.
Test it out... this WORKS.
Brian brian at SeductionProgram.com
The 3 Things You Must Do To Get Women Wet In A 5 Min Conversation
Ever wondered how to sexually stimulate a woman by simply talking to her in the right way?
To consider you a sex-partner? Follow these simple steps and she will be putty in your pants... err, I mean hands.
Seduce women Art seduction:
1. Whisper in her ear
When hitting on new women, you have to jump start the chemistry so that you can go from "nice friendly guy" to "potential sex-mate". The best way to start creating that chemistry is to whisper in their ear instead of talking to them face to face.
Use the excuse that the bar or club is loud and reach in closer and closer in the first few minutes of conversing with .
2. Keep your voice mellow
Don't shout. Don't talk too fast. Talk slow. Mellowing your voice tends to mellow out the other person. This is desirable given that you want to change her state from "strung out, scared and nervous" to " comfortable, relaxed and mellow" around you.
Space out your words. Whispering slowly in her ear will put her in the right trance for further seduction.
3. Do the Boob-touch
OK, so she is relaxed, enjoying the fact that you make her feel calm, the whispering is tingling her inside. Now you got to do the boob-touch. The Boob-touch is a very powerful technique to turn her on physically. What you do is, while you two are standing, you hold your glass against your chest in such a way that whenever you reach in to whisper in her ear, you "accidentally" rub your knuckles against her breast. Very, very subtly. She might not even notice it the first time. She may feel it was a quick accident.
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You then repeat it a minute later. Then again. Very subtly, spaced out, so it gives time to start enjoying it. Soon you will notice she will be reaching in to your knuckles, asking whatever question just so that it can happen again.
At this point, you can be sure that she is "ON" . You are ready to take her to the next level, and soon you two will be in bed.
Remember, during this conversation, what is happening is a lot more important that what is being said. The fact that you are whispering, mellowing her out and turning her on is what counts; not your story about the time you chugged a 40oz.
Just keep the conversation flowing in any direction, and soon she will be wanting more physical interaction, like kissing, hogging and caressing.
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Anthony Berger is one the leading authorities in the field of one-night stand seduction. After three editions of his best selling book, "Advanced Macking: The Shy Man's Guide to One-night Stands", several magazine interviews and appearances on national TV and radio stations, he is now available in his video course. We highly recommend it to men in their late twenties, early thirties wanting to get the most out of life.
Following is a list of readings that we recommend for you:
1. How To Turn Women on Like Crazy? Seduce your partner today. Discover how to effortlessly guide her thoughts to a mind state of sexual desire using a system that no one is talking about! Super Sex Power
2. Your Advantages Become the man other men want to be, and the man women want to be with! You will have boosted self-confidence, walking, talking and acting more confidently around both men and women! More>>
3. Before you can make your lover the happiest in the bed, you need to gain unlimited sexual stamina. I have found this program called "Ejaculation Master" that has changed many men’s lives they can never imagine. Highly recommended… Ejaculation Master
4. NO MORE DULL DATES! Are you tired of the same old dates? Come on. They are lame! If you really want to spice things up and impress your sweetheart, try out these 300 Creative Dates.
5. ??LOVER QUIZ?? What food and drink you should avoid the 24 hours before making love? More>>
To consider you a sex-partner? Follow these simple steps and she will be putty in your pants... err, I mean hands.
Seduce women Art seduction:
1. Whisper in her ear
When hitting on new women, you have to jump start the chemistry so that you can go from "nice friendly guy" to "potential sex-mate". The best way to start creating that chemistry is to whisper in their ear instead of talking to them face to face.
Use the excuse that the bar or club is loud and reach in closer and closer in the first few minutes of conversing with .
2. Keep your voice mellow
Don't shout. Don't talk too fast. Talk slow. Mellowing your voice tends to mellow out the other person. This is desirable given that you want to change her state from "strung out, scared and nervous" to " comfortable, relaxed and mellow" around you.
Space out your words. Whispering slowly in her ear will put her in the right trance for further seduction.
3. Do the Boob-touch
OK, so she is relaxed, enjoying the fact that you make her feel calm, the whispering is tingling her inside. Now you got to do the boob-touch. The Boob-touch is a very powerful technique to turn her on physically. What you do is, while you two are standing, you hold your glass against your chest in such a way that whenever you reach in to whisper in her ear, you "accidentally" rub your knuckles against her breast. Very, very subtly. She might not even notice it the first time. She may feel it was a quick accident.
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How To Turn Women on Like Crazy?
Seduce the woman you desire today. Discover how to effortlessly guide her thoughts to a mind state of sexual desire using a system that no one is talking about! Super Sex Power
You then repeat it a minute later. Then again. Very subtly, spaced out, so it gives time to start enjoying it. Soon you will notice she will be reaching in to your knuckles, asking whatever question just so that it can happen again.
At this point, you can be sure that she is "ON" . You are ready to take her to the next level, and soon you two will be in bed.
Remember, during this conversation, what is happening is a lot more important that what is being said. The fact that you are whispering, mellowing her out and turning her on is what counts; not your story about the time you chugged a 40oz.
Just keep the conversation flowing in any direction, and soon she will be wanting more physical interaction, like kissing, hogging and caressing.
============================
Anthony Berger is one the leading authorities in the field of one-night stand seduction. After three editions of his best selling book, "Advanced Macking: The Shy Man's Guide to One-night Stands", several magazine interviews and appearances on national TV and radio stations, he is now available in his video course. We highly recommend it to men in their late twenties, early thirties wanting to get the most out of life.
Following is a list of readings that we recommend for you:
1. How To Turn Women on Like Crazy? Seduce your partner today. Discover how to effortlessly guide her thoughts to a mind state of sexual desire using a system that no one is talking about! Super Sex Power
2. Your Advantages Become the man other men want to be, and the man women want to be with! You will have boosted self-confidence, walking, talking and acting more confidently around both men and women! More>>
3. Before you can make your lover the happiest in the bed, you need to gain unlimited sexual stamina. I have found this program called "Ejaculation Master" that has changed many men’s lives they can never imagine. Highly recommended… Ejaculation Master
4. NO MORE DULL DATES! Are you tired of the same old dates? Come on. They are lame! If you really want to spice things up and impress your sweetheart, try out these 300 Creative Dates.
5. ??LOVER QUIZ?? What food and drink you should avoid the 24 hours before making love? More>>
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